thesavagesalad:

kinkyturtle:

savannahstreethassle:

lizdexia:

Nice Guyism and Special Snowflake Girlism are one and the same, right?

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Seriously, if all the Special Snowflakes and Nice Guys could just…run off and be passive aggressive and whiny together, life would be so much better for everyone. Because legit though, all the people who truly think “I’m a nice, decent person which makes me SPECIAL and SO MUCH BETTER than all those sluts/douchebags and they suck and wahhh, wahhh, wahhh, why doesn’t anyone pay attention to me!?”—ya’ll fucking deserve each other.

how the fuck does shit like this get over a 100,000 notes. For fuck’s sake people, snowflakes and Nice Guys need their own special island or some shit.

ahhh, stuff like this always just makes me feel sad. it just… every time I see a woman falling all over herself to assure the men that she’s not like those OTHER women, she’s REAL and NOT SHALLOW and NOT A SLUT, I feel this weird combination of infuriated and deeply sorry for her. because this stuff always just seems so much more pitifully desperate for approval than any amount of OHNOES TINY SHORTS AND POSTING FACEBOOK PICTURES could ever be. but yes, definitely seconding the suggestion that they all get together with the Nice Guys so they can gaze adoringly at each other while agreeing how everybody else in the world is soooo terrible for wanting to date the Wrong People (ie, not them). they’ll be happy, the rest of us can get on with things, and all shall be well.

(minor diversion though, if there’s one phrase that I wish would go away, it’s ‘special snowflake’. mostly I think because it gets thrown so often at people whose identities aren’t seen as being acceptable. genderqueer/nonbinary? omg stop being a special snowflake and pick a gender!! invisibly disabled? you just want to be a special snowflake and get special treatment! etc etc. I’ve heard it so often aimed at either me or people I care about or people who just generally didn’t deserve to be accused of ‘trying to be special’ just for being who they are, that I just have this automatic ARGH reaction to seeing it anywhere now, heh. /fails.)

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  7. advisedly-alison reblogged this from fatcatsandcurls and added:
    Such a good name. ^
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  10. fatcatsandcurls reblogged this from historicalslut and added:
    Taylor Swift syndrome. internalized misogyny under...guise of “look
  11. morethanlost reblogged this from agonie and added:
    special snowflakes are so fucking bitter oh my god, I can’t help but laugh
  12. ghost-plot reblogged this from danikathelesbrarian and added:
    All the above. Also: Ugh, grammar.
  13. baconisbetterthanlove reblogged this from baconisbetterthanbacon and added:
    ^ This!!! Man the whole “most girls are like this, i’m like this, therefore i’m better” thing is getting really old.
  14. revymoonshine reblogged this from baconisbetterthanbacon and added:
    apparently they are also the girls without a decent grasp on english grammar.
  15. baconisbetterthanbacon reblogged this from historicalslut and added:
    I think these two groups are the reason why people have such misconstrued views of men and women. They see this and...
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    ahhh, stuff like this always just makes me feel sad. it just… every time I see a woman falling all over herself to...
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    Emphasis mine. Can this happen? This would be a reality tv show I would heartily endorse. Just send them all the fuck...
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    the comments, folks, the comments.
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